3 simple steps to making resolutions you will actually keep

Happy New Year lovelies ♥

I don't know about you, but I'm the kind of person that makes 3824802 resolutions every New Year's Eve only to forget about all of them by January 15th. But I never waver in my optimism: every December 31st, for a short few hours, I am ready to start being a whole new person: strong, smart and confident. The girl that goes to the farmer's market on Saturday mornings to buy kale and to spinning before work five days a week. The girl that does brunch with her friends on Sundays at noon and date nights on Friday. The girl that reads Tolstoi and Rousseau before bed.

Come February and I'm the girl who agrees to a second date with the guy from Tinder who stood her up (because he needed to take his ill pet gecko to the vet or something), then, when he turns out to be a sexist pig, eats a family-sized four-cheese pizza in one sitting while listening to "All By Myself" on repeat.

(It's not actually that bad.)

Anyway, this year I've decided to be a bit more realistic, and I came up with quite a simple three-step procedure for generating useful goals.

7 Things To Do Over The Holidays

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What I love most about the holidays is that absolutely no one does anything during them. So it’s really the perfect time – and sometimes the only time you get all year – to relax completely and do all of the stuff that you don’t get round to in your hectic day-to-day life. Like...

The Grinch's Guide to Christmas

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Do you like Christmas? I’ve always preferred birthdays. My birthday is my very own personal special day. Christmas just seems like a random day on which we have collectively agreed to spend time with people we may not actually like all that much, simply because our DNA happens to be slightly more similar to theirs than to other people’s. 

One thing I do like about Christmas, though, is that even with the rampant consumerism and the awful commercialization, it can slow people down. In a culture where being busy is glorified incessantly, at Christmas, enjoying life a little is actually socially acceptable. I’m constantly worried that I am Not Doing Enough, and yet the other day I actually made Christmas cookies.

They were delicious.

On Male Privilege and Just Eating the Damn Cake

This week, I decided to work on my relationship with food. My goal was to have three healthy, reasonably-sized, balanced meals a day, and I would allow myself a small amount of chocolate at around 3pm. 

This was a plate of Costa Rican food I had. nomnom <3

On the face of it, that seems like a stupidly mundane goal to set yourself. Surely that’s just what everyone does. Or, as I've been asked several times before, mostly by men, “Why are you so weird with food?! Why can’t you just eat normally??”

Sure, let’s “just eat normally”. Would you like some fries with that male privilege?

Book review: The 6 things you should REALLY do before you’re 30

Hello lovelies ♥

After two weeks of ridiculous amounts of work and exam preparation (it turns out a 40+ hour job, a degree and some semblance of a social life are not easy to balance at the same time), I am finally posting… drumroll please … my first book review!

The book is called The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now, written by clinical psychologist Meg Jay. It’s a great book and I recommend it warmly, mostly because it sparked a lot of ideas for me. I’m going to share the six most important ones with you. 

The main lesson I took away from the book is to be deliberate, in the way you spend your time and in who you spend it with. More specifically, the following suggestions seem particularly useful to me:

The One Interview Question You Should Ask Yourself

Hello beauties ♥

This time, I'd like to start with a story.

When I was at high school, I went to interview for a place on the Social and Political Science programme at Cambridge University. The very posh, intimidating lady conducting the interview mustered a half-smile, which I assume was her attempt at being encouraging, as she handed me a sheet of paper with a few lines printed on it. 

How TEDxVienna Helped Me With My Quarter Life Crisis

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It’s Sunday a.k.a. No Makeup Day and I am in my pyjamas on my couch (obvs), and meant to be writing an essay for uni. Instead, I’m going to tell you a little bit about my Saturday, because it’s a more interesting story to tell.

I went to a conference yesterday called TEDxVienna. I assume a lot of you know TED talks. Essentially TED started as an American non-profit that gives really interesting people a stage for 18 minutes. That is all the time they have to share their “ideas worth spreading”, and to tell the audience about an idea, a thought, a concept or a project that they believe people should know about. Speakers include Bill Gates, Salman Khan, Monica Lewinsky, and a bunch of other household names. TEDx events are held all over the world in that same format and host equally amazing and interesting people, but they’re also an opportunity to meet the other attendees, who usually turn out to be insightful and inspirational people. 

so many people!!